Misunderstanding, becoming a hot topic in society because it has caused many troubles, is rather common in our daily life. It is well known that although misunderstanding is very tiny, however, if we can't deal with it in a positive way, it will bring bad effects to us, such as breaking up friendship. What is more serious is that misunderstandings would contribute to breakdowns of families.
Provided that we have tips, misunderstandings wouldn't be so terrible that we can't resolve them.
Firstly, one important thing is to use a common expression and not speak inaccessible and similar words that have the same pronunciation. On hearing something you can't understand fully, you should request others to repeat it clearly. Claim to know what you know, don't claim to know what you don't know, and this is wisdom.
Besides, suppose you are bidding a person to do something. On the one hand, you should make your words as specific as possible, which, of course, can lessen misunderstandings. That would be great if you made your expression accompanied with some charts. On the other hand, you should let the person know more information concerning the mission which may not only relate directly to the part that he will do. What's more, it's wise to give prominence to essentials.
When it comes to conveying emotions, we should count three points. First, you should clarify some actions that could be easily misunderstood, which can avoid some misunderstandings. Second, you should convey your emotions in time instead of being reticent. Finally, As far as I am concerned, before you do something, let your partner know the reason.
In addition, it is necessary to pay attention to the difference of masculine and feminine culture. Generally speaking, to fully express their feelings, women would tend to exaggerate the facts a little for effect and use various superlatives, metaphors and generalizations. Men mistakenly take these expressions literally. When men and women are on the verge where it could break out an argument, it is the only one of the best means to translate whatever they have heard. In short, communicating more is the secret of avoiding misunderstandings.
The last but not the least, when you are in foreign countries, misinterpreting each other would be very easy. If you emerge communication problems, you can assume you would surely understand each other with a little assistance. The best choice is to believe yourself, which would contribute to disposing of the problem successfully.
That we avoid misunderstanding effectively and promptly can make everything bright and harmonious. In short, many misunderstandings can be avoided so long as everyone can think highly of this problem. The less misunderstandings are, the better life would be!
