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Why Friendships End

My best friend Amanda and I used to be inseparable. We did everything together - we sat next to each other in class, played at recess, and had sleepovers almost every weekend. Amanda's mom would pick us up from school, and we'd race to her car, giggling the whole way. Those were such fun times!

But then, things started to change as we got a little older. In 4th grade, Amanda started hanging out with a new group of girls. They were part of the \"popular\" crowd and wore really trendy clothes and had expensive toys and gadgets. I didn't have any of those things, and I couldn't afford the fancy outfits they all wore. Amanda started acting differently too. She would tease me about my cheap shoes and make fun of my haircut. The other popular girls would laugh along with her. I felt so hurt and left out. I didn't understand why Amanda was being so mean to me all of a sudden.

One day at recess, I overhead Amanda talking to the popular girls about having a sleepover that weekend. She didn't invite me. When I asked her about it later, she said, \"Oh, you wouldn't have fun anyway. We're doing makeovers and you don't even wear makeup.\"

I was so sad. Amanda and I had been best friends for years, and now she was ditching me for these new, popular friends. I missed doing all our favorite activities together - making friendship bracelets, telling secrets, and goofing around. It felt like our friendship was slipping away.

Over the next few weeks, Amanda completely stopped talking to me at school. She sat with the popular girls at lunch, and they would all snicker when I walked by. Finally, I decided that if Amanda didn't want to be my friend anymore, I didn't want to be her friend either.

Amanda and I never made up or repaired our friendship after that. By the end of elementary school, we were total strangers to each other. Looking back, I think there were a few main reasons why our close friendship ended:

We grew apart as we got older and developed different interests. Amanda cared a lot about fashion, makeup, and being

popular, while those things didn't really matter to me. Our priorities and values started to differ.

Peer pressure influenced Amanda's behavior. She wanted to fit in with the cool, popular crowd, so she started acting cruelly toward me to gain their approval. Their negative attitudes about me rubbed off on Amanda.

We didn't communicate well or try to understand each other's perspective. If we had opened up and talked about the changes in our friendship, maybe we could have worked through our issues. But we just let the resentment and hurt feelings build up without addressing them.

It was really hard when my best friend dumped me for new, cooler friends. I felt rejected, betrayed, and terribly sad to lose such an important friendship. Even now when I think back, it stings a little remembering how abruptly Amanda cut me out of her life.

But I've also learned that friends come and go, especially when you're young and still figuring out who you are. Some friendships can last forever, while others are just meant for a season of your life. New friends will come along who are a better fit for your current interests and stage of life.

While it was painful at the time, the end of my friendship with Amanda taught me some valuable lessons about being a good friend, communicating openly, and not changing who you are just to fit in with a crowd. Those are lessons that will stick with me and guide my friendships for years to come.

篇2

Why Friendships End

Hi there! My name is Emma and I'm 10 years old. Today I want to talk to you about something that can be really sad - when friendships end. Have you ever had a really good friend and then for some reason you stopped being friends? It's happened to me before and it doesn't feel good at all. There are a few different reasons why friendships might come to an end. One of the biggest reasons is that people change and grow apart as they get older. When you're little, you might be best friends with someone just because you live next door or you're in the same class at school. But as you grow up, you start developing different interests and personalities. My best friend Sarah and I used to do everything together when we were 6 or 7 years old. We loved playing make-believe games, having tea parties with our dolls, and just being silly

together. But then when we got to 3rd and 4th grade, Sarah got really into sports like soccer and basketball. Me, on the other hand, I was way more interested in art, music, and reading. We still liked each other, but we didn't have as much in common anymore. Sarah started hanging out more with the athletic kids, and I got closer with the artsy crowd. We just kind of naturally drifted apart over time.

Another reason friendships can end is if there is a big betrayal or breach of trust. Maybe one friend tells a really big secret that the other person trusted them with. Or maybe they lie about something major or steal from the other person. It's really hard to regain trust after something like that happens. My friend Jack used to be super close with our buddy Mike, but then one day Mike took Jack's brand new video game without asking and lost it. Jack was devastated because his parents had spent a lot of money on that game for his birthday. He felt so betrayed that he couldn't be friends with Mike anymore after that.

Sometimes friendships also end because of moving away. If your family has to move to a totally new city or state, it's really difficult to maintain a close friendship from so far away. Especially without things like social media and smartphones when you're a little kid. My neighbour Kaylee was my very first

best friend in kindergarten, but then her dad got a new job and they had to move across the country after 1st grade. We promised to keep in touch, but it's just not the same when you don't get to see each other in person and go through life together on a daily basis.

Another factor that can end friendships is when one person gets a boyfriend or girlfriend and they become obsessed with that new relationship. They might spend all their time with their new crush and kind of ditch their friends. I'm probably too young to fully understand that one yet, but I've seen it happen with some of the older kids at school when they start going through those boyfriend/girlfriend phases.

Cliques and social groups can also tear friends apart sometimes if they are forced to pick sides. If you have two really close friends but then one friend gets involved with a clique or group that doesn't accept the other friend, it creates a lot of social pressure to pick one over the other. Nobody wants to be left out or shunned by the cool kids, even if it means ditching an old friend. Peer pressure is tough, especially in the preteen and teen years.

Jealousy and competitiveness can destroy friendships too. If one friend starts to do better than the other at a sport, hobby, or

even in school, the other friend might get really jealous instead of being supportive. Or two friends might become too

competitive about grades, video game scores, who's the better artist - anything like that. If you can't be happy for your friend's successes, it builds up a lot of bitterness that could ruin the friendship over time.

At the end of the day, friendships ending is just kind of a fact of life, especially when you're young and still figuring out who you are and what you want in a friend. Some friendships are for life and can make it through all kinds of challenges. But others are more short-term and might just be a phase you go through with someone before you outgrow each other. It's always sad to see a friendship dissolve, but sometimes it's for the best so you can make room for new friends who are a better fit for your current interests and stage of life.

I've already been through a few friend breakups in my 10 years, but I know there are plenty more to come as I keep growing and changing. The dream is to find those life-long bestie types that you can keep forever. But even if friendships have an expiration date, I've learned that it's better to have loved and lost than never to have had that friend at all. Every friend teaches you something about yourself and helps shape who you

are. So embrace the journey, the laughter, the fun times, and the life lessons - even if the friendship doesn't last forever.

篇3

Friendships: The Reason Why They Sometimes End Friendships are one of the most beautiful things in life. Having a best friend is like having a partner in crime, someone you can share your deepest secrets with, and someone who will always have your back, no matter what. But sometimes, even the strongest friendships can come to an end, and it can be really heartbreaking.

When I was in third grade, my best friend was a girl named Emily. We had been inseparable since kindergarten, and we did everything together. We would play on the swings during recess, have sleepovers every weekend, and even shared our snacks during lunchtime. Emily was like a sister to me, and I couldn't imagine my life without her.

However, things started to change when we entered fourth grade. Emily became friends with a group of girls who were considered \"popular\" in our class. They would wear the latest fashion trends, talk about boys, and often exclude me from their

conversations. I felt left out and hurt, but I tried my best to be understanding because I didn't want to lose my best friend. As time went on, Emily started to change. She would make fun of the way I dressed, tease me for being \"uncool,\" and even started to exclude me from her group of friends. It was as if our years of friendship meant nothing to her, and she had completely forgotten about all the good times we had shared. I tried talking to her about it, but she would just brush me off or make excuses. It was like talking to a brick wall. Eventually, I realized that our friendship was no longer the same, and it was time to move on.

The day I decided to end our friendship was one of the hardest days of my life. I remember feeling so sad and confused, wondering what I had done wrong and why Emily had changed so much. But deep down, I knew that it was for the best, and that I deserved to be treated with respect and kindness.

Looking back, I can see that friendships can end for a variety of reasons. Sometimes, people grow apart as they get older and develop different interests or priorities. Other times, there may be a betrayal of trust or a lack of effort from one or both parties to maintain the friendship.

But no matter the reason, ending a friendship is never easy, especially when it's someone you've been close to for a long time. It can be a painful and emotional experience, but it's also a valuable lesson in self-respect and learning to let go of toxic relationships.

Since then, I've learned that true friendship is about mutual respect, honesty, and loyalty. It's about having someone who will support you through thick and thin, but also someone who will call you out when you're in the wrong. It's about having

someone who will make you laugh until your stomach hurts, but also someone who will lend a shoulder to cry on when you're feeling down.

I've also learned that it's okay to outgrow friendships, and that it doesn't make you a bad person. Sometimes, people just grow apart, and that's a natural part of life. What's important is to cherish the memories you've made and the lessons you've learned, and to move on with grace and kindness. Nowadays, I have a new group of friends who truly

understand and appreciate me for who I am. We may not always agree on everything, but we respect each other's differences and support each other's dreams and aspirations. And even though I'll always have a special place in my heart for Emily and the

friendship we once had, I've learned that true friendship is about finding people who bring out the best in you, and who make you feel loved and valued every single day.

篇4

Why Friendships End

Friends are the best! They make us laugh, they play with us, and they make everything more fun. My best friend Lucy and I have been buddies since kindergarten. We do everything together – we sit next to each other in class, we play on the swings during recess, and we have sleepovers almost every weekend. Lucy is like a sister to me, and I can't imagine life without her.

But sometimes, even best friends drift apart. I've noticed some of the older kids at school don't hang out with the same friends they used to. They seem to have new groups and new best friends. It makes me sad to think that one day, Lucy and I might not be as close as we are now. Why do friendships end? I've been thinking about it a lot lately, and here are some of the reasons I can think of:

People change as they grow up

As we get older, our interests and personalities can change. The things we liked when we were little kids might not be as exciting anymore. For example, Lucy and I both love playing make-believe games and pretending to be princesses or superheroes. But what if, as we get older, I start liking sports more, and Lucy gets really into art and music? We might not have as much in common anymore, and it could be harder to stay best friends. Moving away

This is one of the saddest reasons friendships end. If one friend moves to a different town or a different state, it's really hard to stay close. Sure, you can write letters or email each other, but it's not the same as seeing your friend every day at school or being able to have sleepovers. My cousin Ella had to move to a different city last year, and she cried for weeks because she missed her best friend so much. Making new friends

Sometimes, as we grow up, we make new friends who share our new interests and hobbies. It's not that we stop liking our old friends, but we might start spending more time with the new friends. And if we're not careful, we can drift apart from the friends we used to be really close with. I've seen this happen with

some of the older kids at school – they used to be inseparable, but now they barely talk to each other because they have different friend groups.

Fights and disagreements

Even best friends can have arguments and disagreements sometimes. If the fight is really bad, or if one friend says or does something that really hurts the other person's feelings, it can be hard to get past it. Sometimes, friendships end because of one big fight or because of lots of little arguments over time. It's sad, but it happens. Growing apart

This one is kind of similar to the first reason, but it's a little different. Sometimes, friends can change in different ways, and they just don't have as much in common anymore. They might not fight or have any big disagreements, but they slowly start drifting apart because their lives are going in different directions. One friend might start hanging out with a new group of people, or one friend might get really into a new hobby or activity that the other friend isn't interested in. Over time, they might just grow apart and stop being as close as they used to be.

Thinking about all these reasons makes me really sad. I don't want to lose my best friend Lucy! We've been through so much together, and she's like a sister to me. But I also know that people change as they grow up, and sometimes friendships end even if you don't want them to.

I think the best thing to do is to try really hard to stay close with your best friends, even as you get older and your interests might change a little bit. It's important to make time for each other, to do fun things together, and to talk about what's going on in each other's lives. And even if you do drift apart a little bit, you can still try to stay friends – you just might not be as close as you used to be.

Friendships are so important, and they can teach us a lot about how to be a good friend, how to communicate, and how to work through disagreements. Even if some friendships end, the memories and lessons we learn from them can last a lifetime. I'm going to cherish my friendship with Lucy for as long as I can, and even if we do grow apart someday, I'll always remember how much fun we had together and how much her friendship meant to me.

篇5

Title: The End of Friendships

I used to have a best friend named Emily. We did everything together. We played on the swings during recess, had sleepovers every weekend, and even dressed up as our favorite superheroes for Halloween. Emily and I were inseparable, like two peas in a pod.

But then, something changed. It all started when Emily got a new bike for her birthday. It was a shiny red bicycle with ribbons on the handlebars and a basket in the front. I thought it was the coolest thing ever! Emily promised to let me ride it, but whenever I asked, she always had an excuse.

\"Sorry, I can't let you ride it today. My mom says I'm not allowed to share it yet.\"

\"Maybe next time, I don't want you to get it dirty.\"

\"I'm kind of tired of riding it today. Let's do something else.\" I was really hurt that Emily didn't want to share her new bike with me. We used to share everything! I started to feel like she valued that bike more than our friendship.

Things only got worse when Emily started hanging out with a new group of girls. They were all obsessed with their bikes too,

and they would ride around the neighborhood together after school. Emily never invited me to join them.

One day, during recess, I saw Emily and her new friends whispering and giggling together. They kept looking over at me and then laughing. I could tell they were talking about me behind my back. That's when I realized that our friendship was over.

Emily and I stopped having sleepovers and stopped playing together at recess. We barely even talked to each other anymore. It was like we were strangers.

I was heartbroken. Emily was my best friend in the whole world, and now she had replaced me with a shiny new bike and a group of mean girls. I felt so alone and betrayed.

Looking back, I can see why our friendship ended. We were growing up and changing, and our interests were no longer the same. Emily had found a new hobby that she was really passionate about, and she wanted to spend time with other people who shared that interest.

It's normal for friendships to change as we get older. Sometimes, people just grow apart. It doesn't mean that the

friendship wasn't real or important at the time. It just means that our lives are taking different paths.

I've learned that it's okay to let go of friendships that have run their course. It's painful, but holding onto something that's no longer working only leads to more hurt and disappointment. Instead, I've tried to focus on making new friends who share my current interests and values. I've joined the school's art club and met some really cool people who love drawing and painting just as much as I do. We have fun creating art together and sharing our work with each other.

I've also learned that it's important to be a good friend myself. I try to be a loyal, trustworthy, and supportive friend to the people in my life. I make an effort to listen to my friends, respect their boundaries, and be there for them when they need me.

Even though my friendship with Emily ended, I'm grateful for the time we had together. She taught me what it means to have a best friend, and that's a memory I'll always cherish. Our friendship may have run its course, but the lessons I learned from it will stay with me forever.

Friendships come and go, but the love and laughter we share with others can never be taken away. As long as we keep our hearts open to new connections and experiences, we'll always have the opportunity to make new friends and create more amazing memories.

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Why Friendships End

Friends are the best! Having a good friend is like having a super fun buddy that you can play with, tell secrets to, and count on when you feel sad or lonely. My bestie Samantha and I have been inseparable ever since we met in kindergarten. We do everything together – riding our bikes, having sleepovers, trading stickers and bouncy balls at recess. Samantha's mom even says we're like two peas in a pod!

But you know, even though Samantha is my very best friend in the whole wide world, I've noticed our friendship hasn't been the same lately. We've been fighting and arguing way more than we used to. Just last week, we had the biggest fight ever on the playground over who got to be the princess during make-believe time. We went the whole rest of the day without talking to each

other, and I felt so upset and sad inside. I missed hanging out and laughing with my best pal.

After that big fight, my mom had a talk with me about how sometimes even best friends can drift apart or stop being friends altogether. She told me it's totally normal for friendships to change over time, especially as kids grow up. I couldn't believe what I was hearing! I thought Samantha and I would be best friends forever and ever with no ending! But my mom explained that there are lots of reasons why friendships might end. Here are some of the main ones: Growing Apart

My mom said one of the biggest reasons friends grow apart is that their interests and personalities start to change as they get older. She said I might start to like different activities, games, toys or TV shows than Samantha in the coming years. Or one of us could join a new club or start hanging out with a new group of kids. If our likes and interests become really different, it might be harder for us to stay super close friends. Moving Away

Another reason friends drift apart is because one person moves to a new city, state or even country. My aunt's family had

to move to France for her job last year, and her daughter Sarah had to say goodbye to her best friend Emma. They try to video chat and text, but it's just not the same as being able to hang out together in person. If Samantha's family ever had to move far away, staying as tight of friends would be really tough. Toxic Behavior

My mom also talked about how sometimes friends stop being friends because one person starts exhibiting mean, toxic behavior that hurts the other person's feelings. Maybe they start bullying or teasing their friend all the time. Or they ditch their friend to hang out with other kids instead. My mom said true friends should never spread rumors, betray each other's trust or make each other feel bad. If one friend acts that way a lot and doesn't stop after being told how it makes the other feel, it might be time to end that friendship. Drifting Priorities

In the later school years, my mom said friends sometimes grow apart because their priorities start to change. One friend could become way more focused on academics, extracurriculars and getting into a good college. While the other friend wants to just have fun, goof off and not stress so much about the future

yet. Having totally different priorities and life goals can sometimes put a wedge between even very close friendships. After my mom explained all of that to me, I have to admit I felt kind of sad realizing that my friendship with Samantha might not actually last forever like I'd hoped. But my mom assured me that losing friends is just part of life, and that it's okay. She said I'll make lots of new friends as I grow up, go to different schools, and change my interests and hobbies. Most importantly, she told me that while some friends come and go, your family will always be your forever friends who love and support you unconditionally.

I'm still not ready to lose my bestie Samantha. But now I understand that friendships can't always last permanently, especially throughout all the changes that happen as we get older. If Samantha and I do eventually grow apart, I'll forever cherish the amazing memories we made together on the swingsets, jumping in leaf piles, and staying up late whispering at sleepovers. And who knows, maybe one day we'll reconnect again as adults and pick up right where we left off as best friends! For now though, I'm going to keep making the most of my friendship with Samantha while it lasts.