Success and happiness
There are many people thinking that success can bring them plenty of happiness, because in their memory, flowers and cheers come closely next to the success. Doesn’t it make winner happy?
But then, we shouldn’t leave out the pains that successful persons suffer in the process of success. Days and nights, they have to spend a lot of time preparing for it. Hardworking is their routine and being exhausted is normal. What’s more, continual failures cannot be avoided. How suffering they are to confront those failures? I can’t imagine it!
In retrospect, pains from success are usually more than happiness. Why? From my point of view the most time relevant to success is not achieving it but approaching it. As a result, the content that success just stands for happiness is not scientific. One-sided view on the success may be the reason why many people confuse. Success is not only being gotten but also being pursuing. The latter process is far longer than the formal one. Consequently how we feel is up to the process of pursuing success.
So what on earth can we get happiness from success? In my opinion, we ought to adjust our felling when we try to achieve success. If we are optimistic and keep up the interest in success when we aspire after it, we can gain happiness. That happiness is lasting and rich than the happiness getting at the moment that we succeed, isn’t it?
In a word, being happy when we approaching the success is true resource of happiness from success. That is my opinion.